Ally & Feminist & Traitor
Ally for AllLove is love. 'Nuff said.
The focus is on the feminine because that is what is being pushed down. However, focusing on the feminine does not mean we're focusing only on women. Men are belittled and called "less of a man" anytime they portray a trait that is associated with femininity. If women and the feminine were seen as equal to men and the masculine this would not happen.
Feminism is about raising up things associated with females to have an equal place in society as things associated with males. It's called feminism, not equalism, because the focus is on raising up and not tearing down. Equalism would suggest that male things need to come down to a lower level so that female things can meet them in the middle. That's not the point.
The point is to raise up the feminine so it is on the same playing field that the masculine is already on. Feminists don't want men to lower themselves, they just want them to make room for women.